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Saint Anthony (San Antonio) brown 7 day prayer candle in glass jar
7-Day Saint Anthony Prayer Ca…
Indio · ~$8

For the version of herself she misplaced this month

7-Day Saint Anthony Prayer Candle

Indio · ~$8

"The saint who finds what you lost. Including yourself."

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Sinderella's note

Saint Anthony's for the things you've lost, sinner — your earring, your dignity, the woman you were before you met him. Light this one in the kitchen near the sink where the light's good. Watch the flame bend and re-settle. The thing you're looking for isn't gone, sweet thing, it's just under the couch. Saint Anthony finds it. He always does. He found my mother's wedding ring in 1987 in a jar of olives.

The long version

Saint Anthony of Padua is the patron of *lost things* — earrings, keys, wedding rings, courage, the version of yourself that existed before some specific Tuesday. The traditional petition: *Tony, Tony, look around — something's lost and must be found.* Italian-American Catholic households (not just nominally — actually) keep Saint Anthony on a shelf or counter and light him when something's gone missing. He has a reputation for working *fast* — within hours, sometimes — which makes him the most common combo candle: light him alongside Saint Rita (impossible causes) or Saint Jude (beyond hope) when the loss is bigger than an earring. Sinderella's mother famously found her wedding ring in a jar of olives in 1987 after lighting one of these. The Indio 7-day glass-jar candle burns about a week. Place him near a window or on the kitchen counter where you can see the flame. Don't blow him out. If he soots the glass, write the soot pattern down — folk Catholic divination uses the soot patterns the same way coffee-cup readers use grounds. Saint Anthony rides with this one. He always does.

"The dead are watching. They're rooting for you."

— Sinderella · the folding table